never happy?

Question

i am fifteen and hardly ever happy
when im "happy" its never real, its just shortlived at something funny or something
even with friends im never satisfied
i get great grades, im an athlete, im going to music conservatory for piano, and i have friends
my parents are overprotective but i can deal with them mos tof the time
im REALLY overcompetitive and it eats away at myself
im stressed out all the time
im overly dedicated to everything, some of my friends joke about how im such a workaholic
im just never happy
i dont know what will make me happy other than success
i am one of those independent people that is success obsessed
im scared for myself, i feel that ill always be alone in life, pursuing my dreams

help!

Answer 1

Do things that make you happy. Find one best friend. Focus your mind on things that make you forget about whatever is depressing you.

Answer 2

Hi!

I'm 39 and at 15, I was pretty much what you are now. Are your parents only overprotective, or do they somehow erode your self esteem? Do they force you to be so achievement-obsessed? That was the case with me.

I have continued being like this over the years. One downfall is that others tend to like you for what you can do for them. Of course, there are many advantages. You will be successful, probably not have to worry about money, etc.

But to be happy you need to feel that your life has meaning. Perhaps this has a religious character. Perhaps it can be simple dedication to your own family and children one day. It may also be giving your life to a greater goal. But happiness lies in the giving of life to something greater and to something in which you truly believe. Without that, all the achievement and all the success means nothing and can never make you happy. Entertainment does not make you happy--it may mask the pain for awhile.

Love will make you happy. Genuine love that respects, accepts and nurtures each other is a gold-mine of happiness. Learn to love selflessly and maturely now, and one day, when the big love comes along, you will be able to recognize it and respond.

Do not give up the achievements and energy, but try to focus on practicing mature and genuine love. Practice thinking that you are worthy of love and that your love is valuable for others.

I wish you happiness.

Answer 3

You should be happy and more thankful for what you have, specially you who's been such an achiever. Always remember that not everybody is as good as you, but they're really happy and contented with their life. Accept things as it is and anything beyond that, will bring you joy and happiness.

Answer 4

Um I don't know how... well when I get depressed I go to my church. are u religious? it helps. Also, get involved in something that helps others. Volunteer at human society..soup kitchen...it'll get your mind off feeling sad and make u happy u made a difference

Answer 5

If you're not satisfied with what is.... how could you be happy about it?

Start by appreciating what is. No matter what what is is.