Question:
My mommy died today PLEASE HELP!!!?
2010-12-17 13:41:38 UTC
Today at 2:30 my mommy died of stomach cancer. I can't belive it!! It came out of no where!! I know she was sick but I didn't think she would die!!! I feel so lost now. My best friend died last week of lucimia and now my mommy!! I can't stop crying. I need my mom. What am I gonna do without her?? I just keep telling myself its a dream but everytime I open my eyes it isn't!! I want my mom back I need her!!! I don't know what to do!! I'm seriously going crazy!! I can't get through this!! Someone please help me!!! What do I do!! Mommy where are you?? Mommy I need you!! Mommy please come back!! Mommy?? Mommy??...
Ten answers:
Bellus
2010-12-17 14:26:54 UTC
You will need to calm down. I know it feels terrible, but even though it doesn't seem true, everything will be alright. To deal with the grief you will need to be with your loved ones. It is going to be hard, but you will get through this. Don't believe your mother has disappeared forever, she is still with you. That pain you have is from the loss, but remember your heart still contains the love you have for her and the love you received. Cherish that love and cherish all the good memories, for they are still there. If it helps write a letter to her. Ask her how she's doing, tell her how much you love her, open up your feelings. You will get a response in your heart.



If you still need someone to talk to you can message me.



Remember you are still loved by her and the others around you.
QB3Y
2010-12-17 14:13:48 UTC
so sorry about your mum and your friend too

stay strong and the rough time will be over before you know it

and you need to talk about this

your dad, siblings or anyone out of your family

your friends

even teachers

anyone

get it off your chest and

cry as much as yo like. i know this sounds bad but crying makes you feel a little better

also, if this is really really affecting you then get some therapy .



and dont give up on everything like school and stuff (im guessing you're still in school lol )

keep working hard . yu dont want something like this to affect your future so keep on working!



and i know you feel like awful right now

but there are always others in worse places than you

so be greatful for what you have



you can talk to me anytime yo like btw

and stay strong!

:)
*Tyler*
2010-12-17 13:46:45 UTC
It's really hard to take in or actually believe that your lost one has died. I know because when my grandfather passed away it didn't feel real to me. It is going to be really hard but with God by your side you will get through it. Honestly, I don't know what to tell you what to do but all I can say is that she is in a much better place where she isn't suffering anymore and you will see her again in the afterlife. My deepest sympathy and you're in my prayers. ((((H)))) Hugs
2014-10-30 10:18:55 UTC
Please read in the Bible Revelation (Last book of bible) chapter 21 verses 3 and 4. it says" + 3 With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: “Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his people. And God himself will be with them.+ 4 And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes,+ and death will be no more,+ neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.+ The former things have passed away.” Try to help you with more verses
Mad Mac
2010-12-17 18:47:41 UTC
I am so very sorry! About all we can do here is commiserate with you. Since you like the internet try, "coping with grief" in a Yahoo! web search for many links that may help a bit.



Again, I really feel for you!
Kirbygirl
2010-12-17 13:46:12 UTC
Oh no! I am so sorry!

I know how you feel. My grandpa died suddenly too. Why don't you talk with your family and share your concerns with them. Talk with your other friends too and they can counsel you. Try also talking with counselors . They can really help you. Again, I express many condolences for your loss, but it will get better. Feel better :)
2010-12-17 13:44:55 UTC
You have to come to terms with her death. Your mom is in heaven with GOD. I personally think that when someone dies they are always with you too. Pray for GOD to help you through this difficult time in your life. Good luck, my prayers are with you.
Aballie
2010-12-17 13:52:32 UTC
Sorry about your mum just keep strong
Brianna Smith
2010-12-17 14:12:10 UTC
aww im sorry to hear that i really hope you feel better soon
2010-12-17 15:04:31 UTC
*BIG MASSIVE HUGS* xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


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