Can someone help me? Anyone? So upset I could puke.?

Question

This guy and I have been talking and it's been great, we have a message thread on facebook 1,000 messages long. Conversation is great between us, and he is always instigating chats and topics. We met about 6 months ago, and have since made plans to be travel partners during a hike this summer.

Our last topic was about tattoos, I didn't say anything offensive, but he has stopped replying to me. My last email was a response email December 23rd to his tattoo small talk, and I haven't heard from him since. He has however been signing onto facebook every single day and joining mass quantities of groups and changing his status hourly. As if he wants me to see he has been on and is just electing to ignore me. Because usually he never does any of that.

Anyway, since he is being this way and my december 23rd email is just sitting there, I decided it's best to end the friendship and cancel plans with him. I just don't know if I should give him the easy way out and just continue to ignore him and let him slip away unseen or if I should confront him. Because really, I did and said nothing wrong, he has no reason that I am aware of that he should be acting that way, and I really don't want to let him off so easy. I'm really confused.

Answer 1

You did the right thing, and whatever you do, DON't EMAIL HIM.



Do you suppose he also knows when you are on facebook?



Best you found out now if he is going to be a little illusive.



You will more than likely hear from him again so hopefully you can work on a plan for what you will do when he does contact you.



Most likely he either became bored, too enthralled with you, or distracted by others.

Answer 2

It's a little childish that he's ignoring you. The way I see it there is little more you can do than sending him a message asking him if something is wrong/why you haven't heard from him, (best to avoid accusations as he'll get defensive) and go from there. If he responds great, if not he's a little pathetic on top of being childish and not worth your time.

Answer 3

Ask him once, if the reason is ******** or insignificant, he is attention seeking.... and a man that seeks attention is not to be trusted. Let it go and continue on your prosperous journey of life.

Answer 4

That's what happens when you have internet relationships. Get off of your computer and go outside.

Answer 5

umm...why not just message him? you may be blowing it out of proportion. i think maybe you have anxiety?



just e-mail him and say long time no talk and then next you know you'll be talking again.

Answer 6

you sound familular. this just happened to me almost the same way.uuuhhmmmm

Answer 7

maybe its someone else.or he didnt read it yet....