im scared i almost got raped ?

Question

so im 17 and last week i was very drunk and some guy took me on the beach and we made out and i told him i didnt want to have sex because i am a virgin and at some point he tried to put his penis in my vagina and i said no a few times and he kept trying adn he penetrated me for like 5 seconds and it hurt and then i got up and went away. i felt disgusting and i was reallly anoyed so i went home and on the way a security guy (i was at a hotel) asked me if he could talk to me and he took my shorts off and started trying to lick me and he made out with me forcefully. the worse part is i did nothing to stop it i didnt realise what was happening. i cant sleep now im so annoyed at myself i cant get the imagfes out if my head im so scared. isit normal to feel this way? i keep thinking i could have run off both times and i can still feel it i cant think of anything else and i cant tell anyone waht should i do??

Answer 1

your were raped and sexually abused, If you are bold and brave, file a report with the PD. you will protect yourself, and those other victims... please get checked for STDs and for unwanted pregnancy...the guy inserted his penis in you and he could have well spilled sperm in you... Please don't ever drink again as this lessens your inhibitions--your safe guard to what you would not normally do...



file a report please.. you might consider therapy but find someone whom has a good record....so sorry..

Answer 2

Where do you live that you are culturalized into believing that drinking excess amounts of alcohol is the answer to life's problems? Being very drunk led to two situations which you describe as disgusting. You sound unwilling to accept the consequences of your behavior and you want us to wave away your pain. Painful experiences caused by drinking are meant to be instructional. Use what you learned and stop asking us what you should do. You've already done it, girlie.

Answer 3

That's why 17 year old girls shouldnt be getting Drunk -Have some self respect. I know MTV shows etc encourage Partying & clubbing etc. But that's Satan's Playground.

So many women get raped & taken advantage of because they put themselves in dangerous situations. Be smart & have self respect.

Answer 4

First of atll, why are you drinking at 17? Secondly, when you drink you end up doing things that you normally do.



You should be home, or hanging out with friends, or family.



When drinking, you set yourself up for a lot of trouble. If your going to drink then YOU NEED TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILTY A FOR WHAT HAPPENS.



I don't wish anyone to be raped but if you drink and your not in your right mind, then you are the responsible party. Your asking for trouble when your out of control.

Answer 5

You are underage, therefore - if this story is even true - report both of those idiots to the police. Its called

Statutory Rape - a crime.

Answer 6

don't drink illegally and you'll make less bad decisions

Answer 7

im not being an attention whore i dont anyone here what the **** would be the point

Answer 8

you are lying... stop being an attention wh*re.

Answer 9

its not considered rape if you liked it :D