Please read, Serious and rare problem?

Question

Ok so, I'm female, 12 years old, almost 13, and I just feel like my mind is completely out of control. Starting at the age of 9, I've been completely consumed with sex. I was thinking about all the time, and to make it worse, I'm infatuated with guys in their 20s and 30s. I know this isn't just normal natural development to have feelings like this, because this is way beyond that. I am CONSTANTLY thinking about sex, masturbating, watching porn, dressing like a slut, and just trying so hard to get male attention. I've been homeschooled for 3 years, I am going back to school next September, and I've like totally planned out having sex. I even bought a pack of condoms, and will be going on the pill in August. The reason my mother is letting me use condoms and will put me on the pill, is because she knows my problem and she just doesn't want me to get pregnant. But, she really doesn't want me having sex either. I just don't know what to do, I feel like, I'd rather kill myself then go longer without sex. It's been killing me just to wait these last months to have sex. I feel like if I don't do it soon I won't be able to wait and will kill myself. It's totally taken my life over and all I can think and care about is men and sex. I don't have a good relationship with my father if that has anything to do with it, He cheated on my mom twice, once when I was 9 (When it started) and once when I was 11. I found out both times and I'm wondering if maybe that has something to do with the way I am. I just don't know...What I'm asking is, even though I am a virgin, am I still considered a nymphomaniac? Also, My family isn't the type to get me mental help from a therapist or so, so do you think once I start having sex I'll feel better? Because that's what I truly think, that once I start having sex, I can focus on other things. Please help. Another thing, this is NOT a joke so do not make any comments like "Please, you're not 12" etc. This may be hard to believe but honestly, I'm not joking about this sex addiction I have.

Answer 1

This isn't a rare problem, it's just not talked about a lot. As others have said it could be a sign of a more serious problem like bipolar disorder.



Trust me, you don't want to have sex at your young age. You have your whole life ahead of you and there's STDs, gyno visits, increased risk of cervical cancer and possible pregnancy. Plus your body may not be ready for it, so it may not feel good. Also there's the problem that it's ILLEGAL at your age. In most states the age of consent is like 14 or 15. Do you really want to get your sexual partner charged with rape? Perhaps you could just masturbate? That's perfectly normal.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

it's actually common in teens, just not really announced. Don't have sex, you need help and whether your parents agree or not you need to tell them. A therapist can get down to the origin of your problems.

Answer 4

im turning 12 on the 20th



i know what you mean its horrible but how i get threw it is when i see something that like turns me on i just think about the bad things about it like sex, it could cause sickness,it could ruin your LIFE!!,ext



and if you have sex the guy probably will tell his friends,TEACHERS =parents/police!!



my dad cheated on my mom too :( so maby thats a reson we both have it

Answer 5

I would go to a psychiatrist or therapist - it could be that you are a sex addict or possibly even bipolar - that is one of the symptoms - along with many others.

Answer 6

I think you are a sting operation looking to snag predators