Question:
How can I kill myself without having my best friend killing herself?
2014-01-07 06:43:51 UTC
I am going to kill myself tomorrow and I just planned my suicide. I will no longer will be living in this hell. My best friend knows im going to commit suicide, so she threatening me to end her life if I end my life. Recently I had a fight with her and I told her "someday you will understand that I cannot be helped" and she said "fine". I apoligiesed for the fight but unusually she won't forgive me like she usually does and won't talk to me. Plus her abusive mum got involved and threatnen to go to the police for having a fight. My best friend isnt depressed because of me. She's depressed because her alcoholic mum abuses her and that she gets bullied. I will kill myself but I don't want her to kill herself if I kill myself. She has her boyfriend by her side, she doesn't need me, no one needs me. It's selfish when someone forces a suicidal person to live because they have been in pain for too long especially me. It's hard for me to live when things aren't getting better. They just getting worser. It's my life and I don't want anyone to interfere with my decisions. I know everyone wont care if I died and even though they do care, they will get over it. My best friend doesnt care about me because if she did care about me, she would stop ignoring me and forgive me. I really have to end my life. I just can't do this when I have problems that can't be fixed, like when I am not living with my mum because of neglect, that school is screwed up and that I lost someone I loved very much which I cannot get over. I don't want my best friend ending her life because of me and I don't want to be blamed if she kills herself. So, how can I kill myself without having her dead?
Fifteen answers:
2014-01-07 16:33:59 UTC
I can't blame you. Life is a sexually transmitted disease and then you die. It ain't no gift! The more life haters the better. But understand that you could have it so much worse--you could have Asperger's Syndrome, which is a death sentence!
Baa Baa
2014-01-07 18:04:34 UTC
If you think killing yourself is going to end your pain, you are so very wrong because all that pain and more is going to follow you to the other side. There will be no peace for you there because you are going to be stuck in a very sad dark place. The instant you do it will be the minute you regret it, but it will be too late for you. You won't end up in a happy place at all and you will be more lonely and hopeless than you can ever imagine there. It will take you a very very long time to progress to anything higher there where you would find peace and happiness. You may have to live your suicide over and over again and experience the pain and heartache that your friends and family felt when you they found out you were dead. It will be torturous.existence there and you will not escape anything there. If you don't believe me and really do kill yourself, don't say you weren't warned by some crazy lady on the internet about it. I can't stop you, but I can warn you. Take it for what its worth.
2016-11-18 13:19:26 UTC
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How can I kill myself without having my best friend killing herself?

I am going to kill myself tomorrow and I just planned my suicide. I will no longer will be living in this hell. My best friend knows im going to commit suicide, so she threatening me to end her life if I end my life. Recently I had a fight with her and I told her "someday you will understand...
Taylor
2014-01-07 08:04:30 UTC
I believe that time heals all wounds, I know a lot has happened to you in your life but killing yourself is not the way to go. I've had to move around a lot and go to a new school almost every year and I always feel lonely because everyone at school already knows each other and I don't know anyone, plus my parents are divorced and we've had a lot of financial issues in the past, my dad has bad anxiety(which he takes medicine for) and my mother suffers from depression, she even overdosed and had to go to the hospital and during that time she was hardly ever around mentally and physically, but she overcame her problems after going to treatment and now my mother is happier and healthier. Just try to live your life don't end it so early, you're lucky to be alive and healthy because there are people out there who are dying of old age or cancer and diseases who would love to be able to live a long life. Things will get better as time moves forward :)
little_inah
2014-01-07 07:05:30 UTC
There's always a light at the end of the tunnel. It might not be working out for you now, but I know someday things will get better. Your friend must really care for you and loves you, she does not want you to die and she's even willing to die with you. You are not being selfish, because if you were you wont be able to think of others and your best friend. Be strong. I really admire you for being able to open up about how you’re feeling. I know that it can be hard. :)
2014-01-09 03:09:30 UTC
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Lifeline - Australia
2014-01-08 19:57:30 UTC
First DONT kill yourself get help. I've been suicidal and it's awful. Medicine and therapy CAN be wonderful and seriously going to a staying in a hospital I suicide watch can be absolute BLISS and a break for the real world tell somebody. But if worst comes to worst and for some stupid reason you refuse to get help go to extremes first, even running away if that's the only thing you'll consider doing. Give yourself a chance to actually enjoy life. Get out go places don't give up :) your a child of God
2014-01-07 07:43:48 UTC
Well I'm 13 and the way I've tried to end it without raising alarm is to runaway at night and do 1 of 3 things: slit your throat estimated bleedout time considering you cut all of your major arteries and jugular. Instant death. Jump off a bridge. Instant death or a failed attempt. Or lay on train tracks. Then again you could pay someone to shoot you in the head.
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2014-01-07 06:59:34 UTC
It is a basic law of karma that problems left unsolved in this life will occur again and again in later lives, worse each time, until you have the courage to face them and settle them. This is your chance - perhaps not the first one, but let's hope you settle it this time.

As Edgar Cayce said: “For, those things that are as hindrances or troubles MUST be turned into stepping-stones, and not stumbling-stones; else a soul falls backward rather than progresses.“

He also said: “If it is held . . . as a cross, it will remain as one . . . with individuals where there is in their experience crosses to bear, hardships or surroundings that to them are overpowering, overwhelming, by slights, slurs, and fancies of the inactivity of a coordinating force. If these are held continually as crosses, or as things to be overcome, then they will remain as crosses. But if they are to be met with the spirit of truth and right in their own selves, they should create joy; for that is what will be built.“

The purpose of life is to learn to overcome your problems.
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2014-01-07 08:29:17 UTC
Oh dear please don't kill yourself. I seriously don't think your friend will kill herself if you died. She just don't want you to harm yourself.

Anyway I can message you just to tell you care about you ? Life is hard and difficult 99% of the time.
2014-01-07 11:26:34 UTC
If your life is hitting rock bottom then all you have to do is repent. Be sincere, Christ loves you so much and will forgive you for all your sins and fix you if you allow him into your life. Do that and all your problems will go away. "Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned against you and that my sins separate me from you. I am truly sorry. I now want to turn away from my sinful past and turn to you for forgiveness. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, that He was raised from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite YAHUSHUA(Jesus) to become my Savior and the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your (HOLY SPIRIT) to help me obey You and to convict me when I sin. I pledge to grow in grace and knowledge of you. My greatest purpose in life is to follow your example and do Your will for the rest of my life. In YAHUSHUA's name I pray, Amen."
molly
2014-01-07 06:56:53 UTC
hey their if you are thinking of suicide you should contact someone or go to the emergency room and get help
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2014-01-07 07:20:02 UTC
Please no no no no no no NO !!!



Come to Jesus please ! :( He will give you a new life please don't do that, the devil wants you in hell, it's not a joke please take it serious :(



Cry out to Jesus and He will come into your heart I assure. He changed my life and everything is different now



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Please don't kill yourself, please don't do it :( !!!
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2014-01-07 06:45:58 UTC
ironic u calling someone else selfish


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