weird old guy on the bus? easy 10 points?

Question

theres an old guy whos been catching the bus i have to get ( cos of work) and he keeps looking and me for like over a year! he pulls this really disgusted expression and i cant help but notice him looking around and breaking his neck to see me.

the bus is really small so i cant hide and there usually isnt anyone who i can hide behind! its really messing with my head and hes so unapproachable and i cant afford taxi fare every day i go to work !

Answer 1

Keep track of when it happens and also the time you took the bus. try to go earlier and see if he "shows up" anyway. Use this to create evidence for stalking. When he's staring at you, take pictures or a video, maybe covertly at first, but then get very overt with it so he knows you aren't intimidated. It sounds like you are willing to stand up for your right to go to work unharassed. If you think you have enough evidence show it to someone who is usually skeptical and see if they agree. Then go to the police and see if they think it's actionable.



Even if you are naked with Prostitute School backpack, he doesn't have the right to intimidate you and make you feel worried about your safety or integrity.



If there are any other men (or women) who ride the same bus with you, ask them to notice the expression too, that way you have more evidence or another testimony when you hit this guy with a restraining order and shame him to his family for being a sicko.



Or maybe he's actually retarded and doesn't have the social skills to know what is proper and thinks you are pretty. That might be more difficult to handle. Either way, stand up for yourself and get evidence.

Answer 2

read a book

listen to headphone music

stop dwelling and obsessing

the more u let this bother u

the more it will

Answer 3

tell him to look elsewhere or switch up your hours and go in earlier

Answer 4

Maybe he likes you and doesn't know what to do about it

Answer 5

stare back at him as long as you can, and stare some more